The Chain of Thought

hey readers .
Something that has been stuck in my mind for a very long time .  

Are you guys familiar with the concept of what goes around comes around . well tell me how that works :P ?? Anyways, is being too sweet good or bad ... i wanna know because its been on my mind for too long . 

I am nice to everybody (i hope so ) and sweet to those near me (except my beloved brother .. 

i just get on his nerves) . So this has been troubling me from some time .. 

i am sweet and nice to people just because i dont wanna leave a bad impression on people. 

i try to make everyone smile for we all have something to cry for in the end of the day . 

Its quite funny if you think about it .. the first thought registered in your mind 

right after reading that line was that what did i had to cry for yesterday ... 

its not crying that matters its being sad about something  may it be some loss , 

may it be some kind of disappointment what ever maybe the reason . 

so i ask of you if you just smile every other night ?? .. its always with us that we never forget to be sad 

for such petty matters and never once stand in front of the  mirror and smile for we got through the day having so many troubles . 

I heard it in a song and it literally meant that "whoever should consider each of his problems 

as my wish will go through it without any hindrance" so why are we taken aback by problems .

We stick to anything that is a source of affection to us , and that is something we cant even think of leaving .. 

the mare though of it terrifies us.......... what we dont see is the other side of the coin . 

Why not think of that one person that showers us with the affection ? Maybe they have someone else 

to attend to maybe the persons role ended in our play of life . 

We being humans either stop it or go on looking for another why cant we be one instead, 

shower others with happiness .

Have you ever heard of the song  

"jeena issi ka naam hai" from the Bollywood movie "Anari"
one of my all time favorites .. has a beautiful line  " kisi ki muskurahaton pe ho nisaar"
which means  fall for someones smile .. 

so i guess its best to fall for someones smile and always keep your near and dear ones smiling .. 

for you will always be remembered as the one who made em smile rather than 

just a friend ,brother,sister, son or daughter