A Part or Apart?

m in a certain upheaval.. two girls i have know for a year , 

were bestest (oh yea bestest is now a word) of friends . you know the kind you 

always imagine in a pair , the kind who will always laugh together , cry together 

(hope it never happens) the one pair to joke together and the one pair to work together ...  

like socks (weird analogy ... lemme try again) .. a keyboard .. 

now with the keyboard you just assumed the mouse yourself didnt you .. 

Thats the kind of friends they are. We being humans always have a tendency to create differences .. 

we have never heard of a son who never fought with his mom , 

a daughter who never complained to her dad , 

a brother who doesnt defy his sister or brother.
We have believed that we get to chose our friends but there is always a time when we reach an impasse with those FRIEND(s) and it is inevitable that we eventually lose em . why do we let such a thing happen .. because the other one doesnt wanna stick to us. we are masters of our own  fate and our own mind , you know we called him or her a friend 

because they no longer have a name for us .. its oye ,oi, kamine/kamini, kutte/kutti , 

pagal and jhalle/jhalli now. 

As we have a choice we can always chose to be "apart" or to be "a part" to their life . 

I dont have a say in this particular matter because 

i can speak to none and for no other but its upto you 2 . 

I read it once in 8th standard it was a 

"doha by Rahim "
"Rahimn dhaaga prem ka mat todo chatkaye , 

tute te phir naa jude .. 

jude gaanth padi jaaye" 

i dont know you might be thinking "easier said than done ".. 

well i guess we all have our opinion