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Quarrels

Welcome back to another one of my gab fests!

How have you all been all this time?

         I was wondering about something very banal not, because I'm incapable of having complex thoughts but, rather because it was so common and disinteresting that it kept popping up. So, the topic of our discussion today is (yep, you got that right from the title itself).
So, being a citizen of a metropolitan city like Delhi, it is very common  for me to see quarrels, people are fighting on roads, the traffic jams are the culprits, in the air so polluted the smog is the culprit and so on. Fighting is something very constant those who dont seem to be fighting have other conflicts to tend to.
       Therefore, the quarrel I am to address is the one that we dont see, coz what we see is just too petty for me to give my thoughts on. The quarrel within refers to the conflicting opinions of the heart and the mind, this confusion was made evident to me not by my own but rather a friend who was acting continuously ambiguous with her wants and the restrictions.
       I realized that all seem to have these wants or desires, and it takes an educated guess for a person to judge if the said desire is feasible or will it be a fool's errand. So, the to and fro match between the desires and restrictions is a never ending game of tennis. I myself have never had such dilemma, I prefer to act and learn than, to not act and regret not learning, once I have learned, I make a note and try not to repeat the same mistake again (I know it sounds easy and it is too but, there are always consequences). Now that statement in "( )" is the ideal example of the inner quarrel.
      So I would suggest do what makes you happy and dont do anything that makes another unhappy, if you are still not clear then find a loop hole, I know you are good in that.
   

P.S. one cant always be happy, Perpetual happiness is a myth, have your share of sorrows, they teach you.

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