Forgiveness

Been troubled by this one word for quite some time and I bet my sexy ass that fate holds something in future where I would want the same I won't get it.
But coming onto the matters of now I really don't see myself inclined towards the docile concept of forgiveness. I am getting a no. Of chances where I get to forgive people and I am in defiance. I don't know if I am falling as low as the offenders ?
Seems like I don't care I prefer to be like this. Seems to make my life easier, no complications, no 2-faced person etc..
Its funny how people think that resolving things makes everything ok. A famous saint of india ( India is known for that isn't it?) said "Rahiman dhaaga prem ka mat todo chattkaye, tute toh phir na jude-e, jude-e gaanth pad jaaye.
Meaning
O man, don't stretch the string of the bond of love so far that it breaks, if broken it is never the same even if tied.
So I dare question the fact that is it OK to break the bond at your will and tie it to your will and still think the person will be as stupid to go through it again.?